Someone to Talk to

Yi ju ding yi wan ju
Liu Yulin
Part of

New York Asian Film Festival 2017

June 30 - July 16, 2017

Liu Yulin’s first feature is that rare beast, a truly honest and perceptive film about relationships. When cuckolded husband Aiguo sets out to catch his wife having an affair, he ends up destroying two marriages. Meanwhile his 39-year-old sister re-enters the dating game, desperately seeking someone of her own to talk to.

DIRECTOR
Liu Yulin
YEAR
2016
COUNTRY
China
RUNTIME
107 minutes
LANGUAGE
Mandarin with English subtitles
ORIGINAL TITLE
Yi ju ding yi wan ju

Liu Yulin’s first feature is that rare beast: a truly honest and perceptive film about relationships. In the opening sequence, set at a local government registration office, one couple is trying to file marriage paperwork (“We can talk about everything!”) while another is trying to get divorced (“We have nothing to say!”). Ten years later, the first couple has effectively transformed into the second. When cuckolded husband Aiguo sets out to catch his wife having an affair, he ends up destroying two marriages. Meanwhile his 39-year-old sister re-enters the dating game, desperately seeking someone of her own to talk to. Liu Yulin, who studied filmmaking in New York, chose to adapt a beloved novel by her father because she grew up with the characters and knows them inside out, which is apparent throughout her debut.

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